Effort

​What frustrates me from time to time is how many people I've met who put in zero effort into something and expect to see results from doing absolutely nothing.
How does that even make sense?
How can you complain about not getting something that you didn't go and get, didn't work for didn't even try or put in less than half effort into?

It's one thing to be upset cause you worked hard and didn't get something you wanted. But you pick yourself up, dust yourself off, learn from mistakes and you try again. Whatever that might be for you.

It's the people who say "I can't do this" when they tried once and gave up and continue to complain that they can't do it that baffle me.
It could be a confidence thing. Which is tricky because you might be struggling with something. But don't let it jepordise your future opportunities. Don't wait to be more confident. Because what does that actually look like? Noone is 100% confident 100% of the time.

You can't let your life be dictated by waiting for something to pick you up and give you confidence. It's something that clicks within you. It takes a breaking point where you decided when enough is enough and you're gonna grab something, (or someone haha) by the balls and just go for it.